your relationship has a number
YOUR RelationshIP HAS A NUMBER
The Intelligence Your Love Deserves
The Intelligence Your Love Deserves
This assessment converts feeling into measurable signal , delivering structured clarity and guided direction for what comes next.
Relationship Health
Select the level that reflects your current reality.
Mode: Core (6)
Want a sharper reading?
Add 3 advanced signals: trajectory, power balance, and stress absorption.
Communication
Dating Examples
• Important topics are raised early.
• Needs are stated directly rather than assumed.
• Both seek clarity instead of guessing.
50
Clear, direct, and consistent expression of important needs, concerns, and expectations, with mutual understanding.
Emotional Safety
Dating Examples
• Feelings can be shared openly.
• Discomfort is met with care.
• Emotional honesty is welcomed.
50
The consistent ability to share vulnerability without fear of punishment, withdrawal, ridicule, or escalation.
Trust
Dating Examples
• Commitments are kept.
• Words align with actions.
• Reliability is consistent.
50
Reliable, predictable, and honest behavior across time, creating confidence in words, intentions, and follow-through.
Conflict & Repair
Dating Examples
• Conflict is discussed openly.
• Apologies are offered and accepted.
• Issues are resolved rather than stored.
50
Disagreements are addressed directly and resolved in ways that strengthen understanding rather than accumulate damage.
Effort Balance
Dating Examples
• Investment feels mutual.
• Initiative is shared.
• Effort is visible on both sides.
50
Emotional labor, decision-making, and practical responsibility are shared in ways both perceive as fair and sustainable.
Alignment
Dating Examples
• Future expectations are discussed early.
• Core values are compatible.
• Direction feels intentional.
50
Shared direction regarding values, priorities, and future trajectory, with clarity about long-term expectations.
50
Band D
Stage: Dating
Signals: 6
Instability is present.
Stuck dynamics are eroding satisfaction. Process change is required.
Next step
Comfort isn't progress. Decide to increase repair structure or step back.
Type: AX4
Most signals are stable. This system tends to self-correct under stress.
Critical Priorities
Maintenance
Protect what works: keep repair routines and alignment conversations alive.
Based on interaction patterns in your inputs. This is informational and not a clinical diagnosis.
Revisit This Later
Relationships change. This score is a snapshot. Would you like a private reminder to check in again in 7 days?
We'll send this summary and one reminder. No spam. No sharing.
This tool is informational and not a substitute for therapy, legal advice, or crisis services.
What Happens Next?
Your score is the beginning, not the end. Here's how couples use these insights:
1. Start the Conversation
Share this with your partner. Use your score as a judgment-free starting point: "This is what we're doing well. This is where we need focus."
2. Work the Signals
Focus on your weakest area first. Small improvements in communication or trust compound fast—often within 2-3 weeks.
3. Track What Changes
Retake the assessment every 7-14 days. Watch your score improve as you work on the patterns that matter most.
50
Band D
Stage: Dating
Type: AX4
Instability is present.
Stuck dynamics are eroding satisfaction. Process change is required.
Next: Comfort isn't progress. Decide to increase repair structure or step back.
Most signals are stable. This system tends to self-correct under stress.
Critical Priorities
Maintenance
Protect what works: keep repair routines and alignment conversations alive.
Based on interaction patterns in your inputs. This is informational and not a clinical diagnosis.
Relationship Health
Select the level that reflects your current reality.
Mode: Core (6)
Want a sharper reading?
Add 3 advanced signals: willingness to repair, power balance, and stress absorption.
Communication
Dating Examples
• Important topics are raised early.
• Needs are stated directly rather than assumed.
• Both seek clarity instead of guessing.
50
Clear, direct, and consistent expression of important needs, concerns, and expectations, with mutual understanding.
Emotional Safety
Dating Examples
• Feelings can be shared openly.
• Discomfort is met with care.
• Emotional honesty is welcomed.
50
The consistent ability to share vulnerability without fear of punishment, withdrawal, ridicule, or escalation.
Trust
Dating Examples
• Commitments are kept.
• Words align with actions.
• Reliability is consistent.
50
Reliable, predictable, and honest behavior across time, creating confidence in words, intentions, and follow-through.
Conflict & Repair
Dating Examples
• Conflict is discussed openly.
• Apologies are offered and accepted.
• Issues are resolved rather than stored.
50
Disagreements are addressed directly and resolved in ways that strengthen understanding rather than accumulate damage.
Effort Balance
Dating Examples
• Investment feels mutual.
• Initiative is shared.
• Effort is visible on both sides.
50
Emotional labor, decision-making, and practical responsibility are shared in ways both perceive as fair and sustainable.
Alignment
Dating Examples
• Future expectations are discussed early.
• Core values are compatible.
• Direction feels intentional.
50
Shared direction regarding values, priorities, and future trajectory, with clarity about long-term expectations.
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What Happens Next?
Your score is the beginning, not the end. Here's how couples use these insights:
1. Start the Conversation
Share this with your partner. Use your score as a judgment-free starting point: "This is what we're doing well. This is where we need focus."
2. Work the Signals
Focus on your weakest area first. Small improvements in communication or trust compound fast—often within 2-3 weeks.
3. Track What Changes
Retake the assessment every 7-14 days. Watch your score improve as you work on the patterns that matter most.
Revisit This Later
Relationships change. This score is a snapshot. Want a private reminder to check in again in 7 days?
We'll send this summary and one reminder. No spam. No sharing.
This tool is informational and not a substitute for therapy, legal advice, or crisis services.
This assessment converts feeling into measurable signal ,
delivering structured clarity and guided direction for what comes next.